Many people living with violence and abuse want to believe that their partner will change and it is common for people to try to help their partner. You alone cannot change your partner’s behaviour and if you try to do so, this can put you in an even riskier situation.
To have any chance of change, perpetrators first of all have to truly believe that what they are doing is unacceptable. They then need to be open to getting help.
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